Everlasting: On Rehoboth Bay in Delaware at Sunset on a Very Still Evening, in Memory of My Friend Brian


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“If a photographer cares about the people before the lens and is compassionate, much is given. It is the photographer, not the camera, that is the instrument.” - Eve Arnold


    My friend Brian died at home on Wednesday, September 1, 2021 surrounded by his family and his two dogs as his sister sang to him while she and their mother held his hands. Born on the same day as my father a year before I was, Brian and I served together in the Navy on the USS Dwight D. Eisenhower back in the early nineties. He was a fun-loving guy with a wicked sense of humor who enjoyed his work and I’ll remember him as a shipmate forever.

    Only two years ago, Brian had a kidney removed and began treatment for the cancer at his liver that eventually took him, but not without a fight. He battled with the disease for two grueling years. Like so many cancer patients, his treatment plan had many ups and downs but the recent news that the doctors warned him that his treatment wasn’t working was a definite blow.

    Brian passed only thirteen days later, just shy of his fifty-third birthday. The pain he suffered stepped aside as he went to join his brother Tim who had passed years ago at only age seventeen. His family truly feel the two brothers have been reunited in heaven.

    Thank you for listening as this post was a hard one to write. Hold your friends and family tightly. Tomorrow is a promise to no one.

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